Recipy for love

Respect + Trust + Honesty + Loyalty = Love

Love to Yourself is the most important and repeated thing to do and forgeting about myself in all the equation, was making me unhappy for a long time. Thing about beeing unhappy, is the thing that makes it hard to change is the fact, that there seems like there is no way out from it, the pain seems never ending.

Make sure you take care of yourself so you can take care of others, respect yourself.

It is diference in all of interactions that are having place in the world, is presence. I was going on autopilot for a long time, but at some point I thought about how can I go out of the box.

Giving extra attention to my actions, making something simple, really matter, and no matter what is taking place around us, we can give meaning to our actions, words. If what we say is plain, nothing behind, it is because you didin’t put any meaning behind the interaction.

Remember it will only count if you will make it count, think and feel the mood you are radiating. Is it something you want to expirience or maybe you would like tyo change something

Every human that comes to a certain place, Iceland for example, they come with a certain expiriences, and basing o them we can show Respect in a certain way, to our understanding that we build. Without Respect as a fundation, there is nothing that we can build it is like cement, that will make everything hold, withouth collapsing. Once it is done, Trust is beeing build on that, withouth a proper foundation, there is not much that we “checked ourselves” If you want to go to a north pole it would be good, to see how someone would behave on a hike to 1000 meters, because, there is this moment during hike, where under harder circumstances, people start to share something Honest and from sharing enough of true things, and coming from a place of trust, we slowly start to build Loyality, and from combination of all 4 Respect + Trust + Honest + Loyalty we start to build authethic connection, where we know we will not be left behind.

Philars of friendship, if we are starting to loose one of the indigirends the “Table” that we can build things is starting to slowly loose stability, and anything you would put on the table will inevitably fall. It all goes, to building something togheter, and things fall, the most sad picture is when things are keep falling and there is no caring left, to make it better, or save the things, that are beeing putted.

It can be simple things, like coming at a settled hour, or completining task in a given time, bringing the promises to existence. Events that we will expirience are almost like a game with a certain outcomes, consequences might be pleasent, or unpleasent, but the right one will just feel right, and withouth analyzing what went wrong, we are destined to repeat the same outcomes, packed in a different box.

Radar called intution

You might estiamate with a certain accuracy what kind of emotions you might expirience with certain people. It is something I call feeling inside when thinking about someone. If I smile on a thought of seeing someone, I know we have our relation settled in a good place, with roots, and soil not overvlowed with water, and we can try to build something during a day. And Radar inside, shows me “X” “O” “▲” “■”

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