“Art of human connection”
When I try to explain something to anyone, I try to see it in a way that I would like to get it explained.
Art of making a connection, assertivness, gentleness, kindess. We all speak in our own languages, as a naitve speaker in your mother tongue, you can be fully yourself, with vocabulary that is possible to use to describe all the feelings that are inside you, and to be able to do the same with the outside world.
Fluency in expressing thoughts is essential to be able to connect, If people can’t speak freely it is similar to trying to connect to bluetooth, but failing for whatever is the reason to it.
To connect with someone it is very important to know what is the moment you are in is about on that ground that we can meet togheter. Some of us might be super good friends, but just don’t get along in coversation about cars, or fishing, or music, and that is completly fine as well.
To build rapport we need to agree that we are on the same page. If we are in something different, have our head in the clouds, how can we connect with someone who is surfing in the water, or dives.
“Wheater of thought’s”
Maybe head that is in the coulds and skydiver could find a common language. Thing about languages and connecting with it is fascinating for me - Even though we might speak the same lengage, scream, whisper to eachter we don’t reach understanding it is a chaos, that just dances like leaves on the wind, and we feel overwhelmed with the wheather conditions and things that have happened in between people are very hard to explain and not only because it is personal, but also, bit also they will not have the same importance to others.
So often as I was haring with somoene a story that were important for me I was feeling like lack of caring or importance in eyes of other people I talked to were diminishing value of the story, alomst like if I were to share a box of diamonds, that were having a great importance to me, and in return hearing :
So what is so special about those rocks?
Diamonds covered in mud, are still having the same value when you clean them. Just because someone doesn’t get your worth doesn’t meant that you don’t have value. Let’s polish the rocks:
What is the concept ? - Human connection
Why is it important ?- If you know how to connect you are happy
Example - You work with someone and you can enjoy the time togheter
How to apply ? - Learn art of human connection
No friends = Feeling loalney
With Friends = Feeling happy
